Problems with exceeding download

There comes a couple of problem with over downloading.

An average of 2 calls per month I get from people's complaining that- I didn't use to download anything from internet and just surfed some website this month and the telephone bill says downloading exceeded. Why is so?

And this post is as per my promise to write the solution in my blog. 

So, let me tell you that if you don't have unlimited usage plan and each extra MB expand your bill then you need to be carefull.

Possible reasons:-

1) Update
a)Hidden
People's using windows don't have any idea how much each update costs them. While your PC is connected to internet windows updates automatically and update data goes to GB's depending on your OS. So, turn off the automatic update from control panel- automatic updates.

There are some other softwares which use to connect with internet while working. Like- sending an error message and then receiving error report.
For eg:- Mobile PC suite, real media player, etc.
You need to carefull and you must check programs running as tray icon's. You'd better exit it and it'll also help making you system faster and better.

b)Shown
Some softwares before updating asks us whethere update it or not and we always put it on automatic update and we have no idea how much this updates costs to you.

2)Flash contents
Any video or video we watch or listen on websites such as youtube or likewise increases our downloading limit. Always remember acccessing flash video or downloading is one and the same thing. What I meant to say is either you download or watch a flash video, data download will be same(As per my research). When you watch a video song, you download atleast 6-20MB

3)Viewing images
Every image you view increases your downloading

4)Font
Many websites arew formated with such font which are not so common and are unavailable in our system. So, to solve this problem some special coding is done. So, that it is automatically downloaded in our sytem without any prior notice.

Use a firewall software that ask you or inform you if any software tries to connect with internet. So, that you could allow or disallow it.

If you are a donwload freak and your  download limit is set by the server then you must install a software which counts the data downloaded by your system and when the download limit is exceeded, say- 1 Gb then you must be carefull before downlaoding as you have to pay for it.

I'll write more on this topic, when I get time.

Some previous posts are updated.

What is love.

I was just wondering, when do you feel that intense love which you desire all time.

Love is when my Mother
asks- What do you want in dineer.

Love is when my Father
says- Take as much as you need for this.

Love is when  Bhabhi
says-"heyy dude I've seen an item for you"

Love was when my Sister(while doing my work)
Used to Say-"jab meri shadi ho jayegi, fir kaun karega kaam tumhara?"

Love is when my Brother
Says-"Chhor yaar chal na kuchh khane chalte he"

Love is when my Best friend
says- "I always miss you yaar."

Love is when  my Cousin
asks-"Bol chalta he mere saath"
say-"bohot complain aa rahi he teri"

Love is when your girlfriend
hugs you without any reason and say- "You are an idiot, but I love this idiot."

Love is when my friend
calls and say-"sale kabhi toh call kar liya kar, hamesha me hi karu kiya?"

Love is when my Sir
says-"Haan! ab Hamza samjhayega sabko"

Love is when Janab
says-"Hamza ko samajh me aa gaya toh matlab sabko samajh me aa gaya"

Love is when Miya sahab
says-"Hamza babu I need this software"

Love was when my Dada ji(Grand Father)
Used to ask "padhayi kar raha he tu achchhe se?"

Love is when my chachi
says-"aur tour kaisa raha, maza aaya?"

Love is when my chacha
says-"kabhi aa bhi jaya kar ghar par"

Love is when my Badi mummy
says-"fir bhi problem ho toh bata dena"

Love is when my Nephew 
says- "ghumane le jana!"

Love is when my Student
says- "aaj sahi ne nahi kar pa raha, agar bike fir se slip ho gaya toh please daanta mat"

Love is when  my friend

asks-"kaha tha yaar, me tujhe hi yaad kar raha tha"

Love is when my friend(living far away)
asks- "is it still paining, where it hurt?"

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That is what we call love.
I am very lucky that I got such a nice people around me. I love you all, who made my life.

Some facts about me(nice, strange)

->Prefers to dress white(mostly)
So, that if someone calls me and ask-"what type of shirt i shall buy for you" and i say-"if it is white, i'll like it for sure"

->If I would be hungry
Whenever we are on trip and someone asks me about the venue of dinner, I say- I wouldn't take anything as I've had to fill just now and wouldn't be hungry that time as I think so. Without wondering that at time I would surely need something.

->But, they always get my permanent no
I always use 2 mobile no.'s at a time, a premanent and a temporary one. So, that I could give my permanent no only to my family member and dear ones and to those who never annoys me. But, peoples always get it from somewhere

->hilarious

Whenever I go out with my family or if there is any small or big function/gathering somewhere. I'm called to come on stage(in between)to do some mimicry or to tell any jokes. And whoever is present there leaves a comment saying-"You are the most hilarious person alive".

One of my friend Shadab is well known for mimicry and making people laugh with his acts, but whenever it come to me, he says-"You are dady of all hilarious people's"

->Had a personal call center

I got an average 2 calls a day regarding computer problems or other such thing and sometimes for motorbikes. But, I don't prefer going anyone's home to see their system.

->This time I'll study from the beginning

Whenever I'd a new session in college or school I always feel like this time I'll keep studying whole year and maintain a neat notebook and will be present in class every time and will not bunk. But, all this things get out of my mind after some time and I always study in last days of exam.

In case if I try to learn something before exams even when I'd no other work to do, I couldn't concentrate.

->Receives 300+sms a day

I receive around 300+ sms daily from my friends and google lab server and I read it when I am waiting for someone outside his/her home or before sleeping or at the college or coaching. And majority of sms are old and already received.

->Until it is effete

I'm still using that old mobile which I bought 3 years ago and it had uploaded all software necessary for me and I used to keep my mobile until it's IC is out of order.

->The first time i answered an unknown call saying-"kon he be?(who the hell is this), it was of my father.

->Never forces anyone.

->strangest:: I really love it when people say me- arrogant!!

->I'd never indulged in any fight.

->Most of the young guys and girls knows me as a stunt freak.

->Could bear to live in the hottest day of summer.

->Had a nice first impression with whom I met.

->never keep a record of finance available, money spent or anything such that.

->Emotional rather than practical

will write more soon

Hi friends!

How are you all?

The temp. is going up these days. I like summer's. It was so foggy this winter, specially early in the morning. I'd set all arrangement's namaaz in such a way that I don't need to come out my room. One morning momma was going somewhere, so just to see off her till taxi stand I came out of my room and it was all wet due to mist. See images::-

Fog

Even I'm wondering where the hell is kota barrage lost?
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2 weak ago we went to Jaipur just to see off Khatija behn till sanganer airport. Security was tight, as independence day was near to come, so they didn't allow us to get in.

Around 4 am we left for Kota. There was so much fog that it was not easy to drive. So, we  parked our car at a petrol pump, so that after the sunup we could resume and we slept.

Around 6:30 am we resumed and the weather was still foggy.

Muffi bhai drove behind a truck, so that he could see the back light of truck as a guide and after some time he tried to overtake and apply the brake saying- "MCD, I couldn't see anything".

And 2nd time while overtaking he saw a truck coming in front of us and applied the brake and stopped overtaking. At last, 3rd time we overtook.






 It was not possible see ahead 40m. Weather was very chillier.

The reason I didn't pick up any call

Yesterday, I kept my mobile for charging as it was "battery low". Yet, it was charged within 2 hours but I
forgot to remove it wondering it is in my pocket. So, that I totally unaware of this and had 29 missed calls when I saw it. I tried calling every single single users who had their missed call in my mobile and was busy asking why did you call and all that. At the same time one of them(who missed call me earlier) called me and I as I was busy with other one, how could I pick up another call even when it is waiting wondering that I'll call when I put this call. But, some peoples have such mentallity that this guy wanna ignore me and all that.
Why think so much?
It is simpler that their might be some reason if someone didn't pick up your call and even when we call they don't pick up the call and drop a message instead writing- "4m now, u dnt need 2 ignor me like this anymore, as I wnt call u again. gd bye. hd a nice time with u"
WTF!!!!
Why don't some people think before saying so.
Well, what else I could do? Instead wishing to get things normal soon.

Last night I dreamt that I with my friends were finding our way to bahrain.
I wonder why bahrain and not anywhere else? so between I dreamt that we are on a Island

of coconut trees and I am asking a localite- where I am? and what is the best possible

way to reach Bahrain? and finally using water transportation we reached bahrain and I

was amused to see building. Yet, I don't have any idea how bahrain looks like?
Daily, when I wake up- I use to spend atleast 5 minutes remembering what I dreamt.
I dreamt daily; but, last night it was one of my best dream because there was- Beach

(sea), coconut trees, and lofty building i.e. 3 among one of the ten best thing in world

I love to see.
I actually cant figure out why I like watching building? hehe
In short, this dream holds 3 qualities of Dubai.
After I downloaded a documentary movie- Why do we dreams? by BBC Horizon and I camed to

know some interested fact in the first 10 min. only:
some of them are:-
While we dream our minds gets into many stages.
While we snore, we don't dream.(Thank God I don't)
Animal's do dream(cats, dog, etc.)


to be continued..........

Happy New year

It is not the first time that the world around me is celebrating new year eve and I am sitting home rather blogging or doing telephonic conversation.

There stays a reason that I didn't celebrate previous new year eve and for this one too.

I'd received 100's of call from my dear ones asking the program for new year but I malingered in front of them just to tell them indirectly- "I couldn't come".

Here on my blog- I accept that I lied to you all including every single person. Some of you knew it and some of you don't. Whatever I demand forgiveness.

A moment ago I went downstairs to park my bike in my home campus and I saw young peoples living nearby dressed in warm and new cloths sitting on their sport bike and asking-"what you plan for this new year dude!". They were waiting for there friends and not even the young peoples but ladies, girls and other older peoples were passing from there and only me sitting at my home.

Happy new year to all my friends, acquaintances, i.e my dear and near ones, even to those I am having clash with, and including those too whom I couldn't talk due to country prob., attitude, or lack of communication means, etc.

It was hard to decide where to go and with whom to go but it was really easy to cancel all this saying-"I am ill / my throat is jammed / I am dog tired after my recent trips / I couldn't walk due to pain in my leg / aahhh!! my jaws are aching due to an unknown prob., etc,etc,etc". I meant that this all is easy to say but hard to restrain our self by adhering to our words.

And happy new year to those also who aren't picking my phone[:D]. I am sorry again for all this.

Sorry for not joining/ sorry for not calling/ sorry for not wishing / sorry for keeping a distance.

Wait-Wait-Wait! I think that it is only me who is begging forgiveness. I'd better leave this as I never use to give clarification for any reason- because my friend don't need it and my enemies(who hates this) will never believe this.

As per my recent survey:-

88.5% boys are out of home.

and 36% girls are not at home this time.

hmm!! enjoy friends. Don't suffer like me.

Seize the day, seize the year, seize your life.

Best of luck for your future.

8000+ bucks to wheelie

Days ago I went to mechanic saying- I want to wheelie, please repair my bike so that I may have enough pick-up to wheelie.
After driving my bike he said-"you need to replace couples of thing in you bike"
I said-"whatever"
He inspected it and said-"more than "8000 bucks"
I said-"ok"
The next day I replaced my clutch plates, pressure plates, disk brakes(for stoppie).
Ok- I am out of budget for now. Chain sockets and digital meter is prohibited for me now.
Days went through.
I bought chain sockets and gave mechanic to replace and he was chocked to see that most of the jaws of my pressure plates were broken and rubbed to end. He said-"Till now how did you manage to drive with this thing".
When you wheelie a bike- there is enough pressure on the chain sockets after accelerating.

 Have more to do for wheeling and this time I'll try stoppie and some other stunts also.
I've uploaded a video of last wheelie I made. See it




Good-bye for now.

Out of all articles I ever read- this one is the best in my opinion. So, I would like to share this with due credit to the writer for her hard work.

There was once a bridge which spanned a large river. During most of the day
the bridge sat with its length running up and down the river paralleled
with the banks, allowing ships to pass through freely on both sides of
the bridge.

But at certain times each day, a train would come along and the bridge would be turned sideways across the river, allowing a train to cross it.

A switchman sat in a small shack on one side of the river where he operated the controls to turn the bridge and lock it into place as the train crossed. One evening as the switchman was waiting for the last train of the day to come, he looked off into the distance through the dimming twilight and caught sight of the trainlights. He stepped to the control and waited until the train was within a prescribed distance when he was to turn the bridge. He turned the bridge into position, but, to his horror, he found the locking control did not work. If the bridge was not securely in position it would wobble back and forth at the ends when the train came onto it, causing the train to jump the track and go crashing into the river. This would be a passenger train with many people aboard.

He left the bridge turned across the river, and hurried across the bridge to the other side of the river where there was a lever switch he could hold to operate the lock manually. He would have to hold the lever back firmly as the train crossed. He could hear the rumble of the train now, and he took hold of the lever and leaned backward to apply his weight to it, locking the bridge. He kept applying the pressure to keep the mechanism locked. Many lives depended on this man's strength.

Then, coming across the bridge from the direction of his control shack, he heard a sound that made his blood run cold. Grandpa, where are you? His four-year-old grandson was crossing the bridge to look for him. His first impulse was to cry out to the child, Run! Run! But the train was too close; the tiny legs would never make it across the bridge in time. The man almost left his lever to run and snatch up his grandson and carry him to safety. But he realized that he could not get back to the lever. Either the people on the train or his little grandson must die. He took a moment to make his decision. The train sped safely and swiftly on its way, and no one aboard was even aware of the tiny broken body thrown mercilessly into the river by the onrushing train. Nor were they aware of the pitiful figure of the sobbing man, still clinging tightly to the locking lever long after the train had passed.

They did not see him walking home more slowly than he had ever walked: to tell his family how their son had brutally died.

Now if you comprehend the emotions which went this man's heart, you can begin to understand the feelings of our Nabisaheb, Rasulallah A.S. when He sacrificed His Grandson to bridge the gap between us and eternal life. Can there be any wonder that this caused the earth to tremble and the skies to darken when Imam Hussain A.S. accepted Shahadat? How does Panjatan Pak A.S. feel when we speed along through life without giving a thought to what was done for us by Them.

So what do you think is our duty???? Can't we give just 9 days of our year to show our remorse and do maatam & buka??

Article written by:

Nisreen Dr. Sk. Abbas Merchant

Accident

Last night harshill came to my house in a brand new honda city car which was bought three days ago. I was amazed after seeing it.
I said-"Wooh lets have a ride". Then I took treat and I said-"Its my turn now". Wooh amazingly fast and smooth.
Before I could cross aerodrome circle- he said- " take a turn or my father could see us". So, I stopped the car in between the traffic, to  turn it and before I could light up the indicators, he said-"turn turn, don't worry, I couldn't see any vehicle coming in our way. So, I turned without giving indicator. I'd now just pressed the accelerator and heard a voice- "bhhhammm.."
Me- what??
Harshill- watch we crashed a motorbike.
We didn't know a motorbike was coming and before he could apply the break, his bike was striked with our car and he was trying to balance it. But, due to his speed- he couldn't and crashed after 50-100 mtr from our car, and to my goodness no one on the road knew it was us who did it.
Me-OMG! Now, let us help him
Harshill- leave it, run run.
My God how could I do such mishap. I couldn't run. As, there was some vehicle enclosing my way. And thank God- his leg was jammed in motorbike, so that he couldn't stand and approach us.
Some people ran to help him and he gesticulated towards us- as a sign- here they are- and then those people were busy treating with him and also gesticulated us to join and help.
I shooked my head as a sign of- yeah I am coming. But, wait let the me park my car.
Harshill(angrily)- Hamza run run what are you looking for? Run the vehicle in 1st gear. Actual words-{Hamza! Hamza! bhaga na! chal na!! ruka kyu he? bhaga tu toh pehle gear me karke"}.
But, how could I? some vehicles were enclosing my way and I was waiting for them to pass.

Thank God- road was clear and I was having a little duration of time to cross before other vehicle could again enclose my way. I gave the accelerator. But, damn ignition was off. Then, I hurriedly turned on the ignition and I drove lightning fast and Harshil again-"slow!! slow!! I could see no one following us. Actual words- {Bhai bhai dheere-dheere, koi nahi aa raha, koi peechha nahji kar rha.}
Now,  I relieved a sigh of heave and gave  Harshill to drove. We didn't waste  our time regretting and again planned to seize the day. He said-"Lets drive to new kota. Beautiful chicks are waiting for me" and what could I say?. As, I was  flabbergasted with that accident.
And he said-"Never stay if you chance to run after accident, or you will see no difference in general public and hooligans at that time"
We were now far away from the city and on one place we stopped to have some eatery. I closely watched the place where that biker bumped.
Me-Ohh no!! dent in a new car!
Exactly at the place where he was bumped.
Don't worry I'll pay for this.
Harshill- leave
Me-Atleast I contribute
Harshill- No for what
Me-It's because of me
Harshill- No, it was a worker of my factory.
But, I knew he was lying.

Now, that's I call a friend.

Whenever I'd drove a car- most of time I faced misfortunes. I don't know why. I'll keep a distance from driver seat from now onwards.

What could be more pleasurable for me- sitting on my computer chair and watching some Hollywood movies of my fav. actor/actress, fav. series, fantasy, animated and all that / glued to mobile / reading unread fb messages, e-mails, chating with someone who admires you, listen to your unnecessary crap and who is well known of what you want and best of all listening my songs. My collection, my ultimate and personal collection. This is what I could die for.
It is 2 in the night that I'd updated my post and still chatting and I could spend whole night, if my partner would be interested. I can die, and I can really die for this.

I'd no tension of my college/tution/etc.
I'd stop worrying about all these. Whatever, worrying never solved my prob. Huhh!!

Sunday being the next day, I don't need to worry about my schedule like college, work or anything else. As from these so called days I am regularly praying namaaz in the morning. So, this time it doesn't matter Sunday or what. Yet, I've to attend a meeting tomorrow 9am and have some work i mean social work to do. So, this time I'd to sleep earlier. I mean around 3 or whatever.

chal reh soja bete soja.........

Good night

Shall I start studying?

Last night I dreamt:- all my books were dancing around me making scary faces and they all seamed to b angry. I was running my best to get away. But, they were not letting me out.

Could you guess, on which song they were dancing??

The song was:-

Zara zara touch me touch me touch me....
Zara zara hold me hold me hold me... [:D]

haha,, yeah its true. I am not joking.

After I woke up- sister called me and I explained everything to her.

whoaa!! She was laughing like anything.

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3 week ago, I joined coaching for DBMS and I studied 4 days. One day I was absent and next day was Sunday. So, I called CKS sir and said-

Me:"Sir, would you take class for DBMS tomorrow?"

Sir: "DBMS?"

ME: "yeah!!"

Sir: "I didn't start class for DBMS yet!"

Me: "heh? Sir, you were teaching DBMS in 5 to 6 batch na?"

Sir: "Are you mad? It was DE which you were studying."

Me: "Ohhh yeah yeah I was confused". (But, that wasn't true).

So, whatever I was studying DBMS or DE, who cares?

huh!! 
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4 Days ago

One of my friend who is studying Bsc(IT)- asked me about my subjects. She really asked a very tough question and I could only list out 3 and that too after thinking and she was laughing on me and then she gave me some other possible options. And I rationalized that- I just study the matter from notes and I don't act to know which subject is it about. But, that wasn't true. 

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So, friends I'd better start studying. So, after Moharram- I'll be surely studying.[:D]

Till then Take care.......

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I was really very nervous of going to college as internal exams were going on in our college and I'd already missed 4 our of 5. And my class teacher as well as principle was calling the parents of such children for meeting, and even those who were not performing well. I was really frightened.
I went to college to attend last day of internal exams. I saw that every single student was present. I was totally unaware of what the internal is about? What subject is- I am going to take papers? and all that.
I sat quietly and wrote nothing sensible.
After that- when I met class teacher for taking form, I was afraid as he would ask for the absense and I wasn't having leave app. But, to my surprise- he ask nothing and behaved nice to me, and offered me some money for depositing form, as I was not having enough money to submit the form.
Thank GOd, everything end up fine.

I am really going busy these days. Working whole night and sleeping in day time.
Tired but not exhausted.
Will update you soon with my journals.
I am not getting time to eat a crumb.
It's a different fun interacting with Janaab.
See you soon

Under 18 voters

Today was a day to vote.
So, I went out to vote. I'd made my mind to vote for BJP. But, when I was passing through a place in our area where members of political parties can be seen canvassing at the time of election. I saw papa sitting on Congress's booth and I told him- "I am voting for BJP". Papa said-"better vote for congress" and other (ex)politicians sitting nearby also said so.
I didn't wish to vote for congress, but I did as papa said.
And when I came back after voting, they made me sit at congress's place, so that Hasan and I could help others to find their names.
We sat quietly for an hour and had eaten the food they served. It was delicious.

So, for the next hour- could I only sit and help others instead to playing some pranks? Well, obviously the answer is -"no". So, I find a way to amuse myself.

There was a dummy model of voting machine kept at the table, you could see in the image. And as Eid-ul-adha is near to come, so some children were playing with goats and sheep, I called them and said-"You could vote if you wish. I'd all necessary instruments and you will get some chocolates by our jamaat by showing a slip which I'll give you after you vote, everybody said-"Yes, we will vote and there was pen which is kept to mark the name of people's who voted for Congress and I was making a sign on their fingers, as they were making at the voting booth, and then I'd written their name on a slip and said-"You are done, you could take this slip and you will get some chocolates after showing it in our jamaat office". Hope, jamaat members could manage easily. You could see the video and have some fun.

Tips for blogging

For those who had wanted me to tell some tips, do and don't about blogging, . So, this post is dedicated to you all. I am writing it myself:-

 What is a Blog?

Blog:- A blog (a contraction of the term "web log") is a type of website, usually maintained by an individual with regular entries of commentary, descriptions of events, or other material such as graphics or video.

-Wikipedia- 

Here are some tips:-

1)Clarity:- Whatever you write must be clear enough for the reader to understand, no code word to be used. It is good to avoid internet language in blog, i.e "Who are you?" mustn't be -"who r u?".

2)Conciseness:- Whatever you post must be concise and up to the point, i.e you must care about- what to write and what not to write such as "what you cousin's step mother did with her maid servant" is among what no to write. Remember to write in brief as busy people's would not like to read your blog.

3)Correct:- Don't forget to spell check your post, and check if there is any grammar or punctuation mistake, as a grammar or spell mistake can change whole meaning.

4)Complete:- Ensure that whatever you have wrote is complete and if it is incomplete, then leave a note, such as -"To be continued".

4)Language:- As some people said that I am using uncommon/unusual words, they had to search for many word in dictionary to understand it. So, you had better avoid using uncommon words, so that every person visiting your blog can easily get it. You must be familiar of who might be reading my blog, so that you may use grammar and words acc. to his/her intellectual level.

For eg:-> "Discourteous" in place of "ill mannered".

Using uncommon words make your post look trendy and different, but either limit it or give the meaning of that word in bracket.

5)Time:- Most of the people have time wasting mentality toward blogging. This is the worst thing of all I hate to hear. Actually it isn't time consuming; once you have completed the layout, you are ready to post. It depends on you how brief you write. It hardly tokes a minute to post once you had written the matter, you must be well acquainted of what to write.

6)Credit line:- Don't forget to write a credit line, if you have copied something from internet or somewhere else, don't forget giving credit to the author of that para., For eg:- I had given the credit to Wikipedia as I had copied the definition of blog from Wikipedia.com. Never indulge in plagiarizing.

As I still remember 4 C's among that 7 C's of communication of communication, which I had read in previous year in my college, so the subject of first 3 post is copied from there only.

Websites you can use for blogging:-

Blogspot:- Auto save feature is great if you forget to save your post.

Blog:- If you want a desirable name for your domain, then you must have a account of blog.com, but that website is not upto the mark.

Beside these, there are many other websites you can use, try to Google.

I had always felt satisfactory after writing blog for the day and I never felt bore since 2 years, 8th Jan 2008 was my first post and still writing and will be always writing to the last breadth.

Thanks for reading.

Note:- This post is written by me and will be further refined or expanded.

Yesterday around- 11:30 AM, I went at Adnan's place to solve the problem he is facing in some work and I returned to home around 12:30 AM and had a telephonic conversation until I felt exhausted, and it was too late that I didn't wake up for praying namaaz and feeling guilty for that. And usually I don't go to college on Friday's but today I was having some work, but I failed to make it as I am feeling tiresome and today, and having a lot work to do.

Article:- Stop imprecating and start cheering

     Do you keep a distance from such people's who indulge in any bad activities just because they are so, even if they cause no harm to you mentally or physically; they are good to you but they are bad for others. They have a pursuit of pleasure. You hate them because they are not like you, or I say- In other point of view- you hate yourself because you are not like them.

So, you ever wondered the repercussion of weltschmerz?

Is interacting with iconoclastic people your bete noire?

Did you seam opinionated in making friend?

If so, you seams to be far away from the reality and you seams to having misanthropic attitude toward the world.

    The world which we live in- is jam packed with such kind of people's-, and seeking a upto the scratch person is like searching for a needle in sahara dessert.

Now, the main point is who do you say well characterized?

Different people's have different kind of view, let's see an example:-

1:- They say that smokers and dipsomaniac's could be a good person no matter if he keep his habit up to his eyeball.

2:- They have had a sheer hatred towards these.

3:- They have no hatred until unaffected.

My personal view:- I've had especial dislike for such people's, but have no hatred towards them and why would I do so?

What am I losing in loving them?

If the answer is no, then would I keep a hatred for such kind of people's?

Every person has some dis qualities.

Some say that I don't like those who aren't or who weren't virgin before marrying.

Why is so? Is he/she going to be your spouse?

What if any of your colleague non-virgin? Wouldn't you talk to him/her, never run any deal? Then you have a narrow minded approach towards such people's.

What you must care is:-

Is he/she capable of doing what you want him/her to do regardless of his character?

Would he/she spoil you work?

You had better make a code of conduct towards such people:-

If one smoke's:-

You must have a good reason for ostracizing someone, let's take an example of smoker, why would you hate him:-

Is he importunate of making people's likewise?

Is he smoking upon your face?

Is he wasting your money/time because of his habit?

If the answer is no, then would I keep a hatred for such kind of people's?

Every person has some dis qualities.

Avoid him if you are around your home and your parents don't like to see you around such people's.

You say you hate those who flirt's and end up sleeping around.

I say- if anyone of them let say a boy, if he indulges in any such thing, a girl herself is also responsible for making any physical contact with him and vice versa.

You must only care what attitude that person is having with you.

Don't stay, but interact.
Don't be informal, but be formal.
Don't support, but don't oppose at least.

I'd better like to understand such people's and sublimate their energy into some good purpose. For eg:-

A gangster can be channeled into a business or sport activities such as shooting, or any such activity he is capable to accept.

Likewise a  psychopathic exhibitionist can be an actor.

So it is unto you, that if you it step by step and try not to comprehend like them.

I accept that you must avoid people's with any of these qualities:-
1)Judas:- He is a traitor, it is vital to avoid him, as he can even sell his best friend for money.

2)Vulgarian:- He can spoil your communication skills by using scurrilous language, and instead of saying -"Ohh no" you will say-"ohh teri behen di".

3)Loose characterized:- When they indulge in any bad activities, then too will get hatred of the folks.

This list could be further expanded, but I am giving you a little idea. You had better keep especial hatred towards someone instead of having unabridged hatred. And if you are among such people's then I'd like to say-"You had better stop imprecating and start cheering". I still remember a thought, which I'd read 3 years ago:-

"If you judge people, you will be having no time to love them."
-Mother Teresa-

Treat everyone with love, no matter how they are, not because they are not nice, but because you are nice.

-Unknown(received as an SMS)-

Above article is incomplete and would be further expanded.

Written by -Hamza Ali-.

Note:- Not a single word(sentence) is plagiarized.
Next article:- Virginity:- The biggest dignity.

I was feeling ache in my neck with back pain when I woke up today as I am using very soft mattress since yesterday. So, just after that I changed my mattress with a hard one.
The weather was foggy and I was feeling chilly when I came out of my room.

I saw the beautiful view of river chambal from the window of my room and I took a pic, but it was no excuse to make that day off.
Thanks to those who sent comment for my blog on mobile, facebook, etc and having a liking for my blog and specially for your valuable suggestions about the words I use. Around 3 people's asked to give some tips on writing blog; I wonder if they are just fooling me I would write it as soon as possible

Thanks Again

anything for chocolate fantasy

   Today we are decided to watch movie-"Ajab prem ki gazab kahani". We were 3 in no., but due to unavailability of ticket we again  postponed by a day, it was house full. They both decided to go adlabs or inox, but i refused as i didn't want to go Inox and Adlabs was far away and I didn't want to go, so I said I am not having helmet; and one of us was a girl, she said-"I'll manage, I'll handle cops", but I continually refused and said-"I wanna go CCD" and you know if I insist- I make everyone to say "yes", that's it, I knew that we wont get a seat, and it was an abortive attempt and I was eager to have a Chocolate fantasy, and I finally got it.
So, the plan of watching movie in theater had gone bust, so we bought some Chinese food from my fav., stall to my home and enjoyed some funny, stuntmen videos I've in my PC with conversations about latest buzz of the town and other talks.
Then one of us was having some work, so he went away and after doing some work on internet I see off the other one to her home.
I was still having my mouth half open because of the conversation we had. Something that I can't share on blog.